I first joined Benaughty - no one replied to my messages.
They prompt you to join sister sites such as Flirt, etc. The same women appeared on both & in both chat rooms. Lots of messages for me in Flirt. I complained & was able to transfer over from Benaughty.
I answered all the messages but never had replies. I winked, tried to chat, jumped up & down, shouted, laughed, all to no avail.
Give all Cupid owned sites a miss. They only want your money.