SwingingHeaven is dedicated to swinging in the UK and it's completely free to register as a member. If you are either into 'The Scene' or interested in learning more, this is the place for you.
Browse other swingers' adverts in the photo ads system or place one of your own. There's also a forum message board where adult members can place simple messages quickly and easily, exchange useful information with others, arrange parties, web cam meets etc.
I enjoy it, but hard as a single guy
I have been using this site for about ten years now, it's always my "GO TO' for a bit of fun. I am, a member of all the main ones in the UK and this one has the best chat, pictures, and profiles. The forum is quieter than some of the other sites, but all in all it's good to use. You can read and reply to all messages even on a free account, and admin have always been really helpful. Lots of hot couples but getting action with them can be challenging so I try to get to know them in chat first as it helps break the ice. Never had any issues with payments, you can stop and start your membership any time you want from the site if you go for an extras package.
Pros
Chat, Admin, Genuine site and members.
Cons
Lots of couples, but as it's busy getting a threesome as a single guy can take some work. But saying that I get more action on here than most of the other sites.
If you are an single male,then don't bother!!
If you are a single male,please stay away from that site.The site is full,mean full of couples and arrogant,nasty,fussy single females wanting for a model to fullfil thier own sexual fantasies.
I saw a couple that had more than 500 messages replying to their advert and they just didn't pick up any single male just because they didn't find a male model to join a 3some with.
Full of foolish,rude and nasty peoples,stay away guys,that site is just a waste of money and time to single males.
Pros
Nothing at all.
Cons
Poor lay out,chatroom desn't working properly,too many fussy,arrogant couples and single females wanting for a model.
Not the worst, but wondering if it's actually the best...???
I've used SH for a number of years and as a single male it has generated quite a few meets for me, some amazing, some amazingly bad. However, and this is an important caveat, I am very well hung, have pics of myself in action, and have worked VERY hard at generating meets. I have put a LOT of time into it, and the meets haven't come easy, they've had to be earned. So, in conclusion, if I - with those things in my favour - have only had a reasonable time on there, you do wonder about the experiences of other men using SH...my suspicion would be that they wouldn't be crazy about it...
If I have a criticism of the site it's that it seems terribly reluctant to "get with the programme" and make it all about who's hot. Culturally I think it still has one foot firmly lodged in the old-school perception of swingers ie. overweight people in their 50s planning dogging trips, when the world has moved on, and now there are fit couples in their twenties and even teens looking to spice up their love life.
Overall though, the site is at least pretty spam free (which was one of the nightmares of Adultfriendfinder when I was a member there), and it's at least better than many of the sex sites I've heard about.
Pros
Very few spammers, not too expensive, improving website.
Cons
Bit stuck in the past, too many overweight, 50+ couples on there if you're looking for really hot people to hook up with, like all sex sites it takes some serious work to generate meets.